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Just to share with my visitors how this almost a year old girl is very keen on reading. She is actually improving her fine motor skills. Moving page by page, the movement made the little fingers stronger. This is really a great time to start sharing books with the little one, as their eyes picking up the lovely colours on the pictures of every pages of the book. Keep up the good work Aleesya!!!

roda-roda perkahwinan..

Sibuk semenjak, dua menjak ini diperkatakan media tentang pasangan selebriti Malaysia yang terkenal ini. Pancaindera dari Mingguan Malaysia semalam, ahad 9 November 2008, menyiarkan 2 mukasurat penuh, berwarna warni, satu babak dari drama perkahwinan Abby dan Norman.

Pada saya, drama ini merupakan tazkirah. Sebuah kehidupan di alam realiti, yang mana pelakon-pelakonnya adalah manusia yang diciptakan Allah sebagai khalifah di atas muka bumi ini. Baik khalifah, makmurlah dunia. Andai khalifah sesat, maka hancurlah dunia.

Apa yang berlaku kepada Abby dan Norman bukanlah sesuatu yang pelik. Ianya berlaku kepada sesiapa sahaja. Asalkan sahaja hubungan itu namanya perkahwinan, maka bersedialah untuk diuji dengan ujian seperti yang mereka lalui.

Allah jadikan manusia ini berbeza antara satu sama lain. Lelaki berbeza daripada perempuan. Tujuan hanya satu, untuk mengenali antara satu sama lain. Pada waktu awal perkenalan, segalanya indah. Sudah namanya manusia, tidak sempurna. Maka sesebuah perhubungan, terutama perkahwinan menuntut kepada kesabaran, keikhlasan, kemaafan, pengorbanan dan yang paling penting, tujuan perkahwinan itu sendiri iaitu sebagai ibadah makhluk kepada Khaliqnya.

Semua kita perlu belajar daripada apa yang berlaku disekeliling kita. Cerita yang ditontonkan kepada kita bukanlah untuk diumpat, untuk dicari kesalahan siapa, tetapi untuk kita jadikan pengajaran kepada kita. Samada kita sudah melalui ujian ini, akan melalui, atau sedang melaluinya, yang penting bukan kita sahaja yang Allah uji. Semua manusia akan Allah uji dengan ujian yang sama. Siapa yang bertaqwa dan menjadikan Allah sebagai tempat menyelesaikan masalah, insya Allah itu lah manusia yang mendapat kejayaan baik di dunia, mahupun Akhirat.. Wallahu'alam.

Jejak Kasih..

Hmm.. busy this morning. So busy scrolling down the monitor, going from page to page.. This one i know.. add her as a friend? Yes, sent her a message.. Yeah!!

Phew.. Facebook has get into me. Really.. When i log in this morning, fifi sent me a message.. So, my search started then.

Sekolah Tun Fatimah.. What a memory. 5 years is not that long, but it really a place not to forget. It's not that i have too many memories to remember from this place, but man.. 5 years.. I just have to admit, it was a place that i can call teacher. Even 2nd parents, should i say...

facebook.

After all the fuss, i decided to try this.. www.facebok.com. Hmm wonder why it's so famous? Well. for just a few days i was so busy.. another activity added after blogging. Now facebooking.. hehehe.. Thanks to all my supporter that made facebooking a reality, mainly.. Chik, Sheila, Hanee, Ngah etc, etc.. these are for you..

Well Done America!!!

Congratulation President Obama!!!


'No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.'
Nelson Mandela
Long Walk to Freedom

http://www.allgreatquotes.com/nelson_mandela_quotes.shtml

Petikan dari HARAKAHDAILY...

Mursyidul Am PAS, Tuan Guru Dato' Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat menyifatkan kemenangan Barack Obama dalam pilihan raya Presiden Amerika Syarikat merupakan satu perkembangan baru politik dunia...

"Apa yang diharapkan semoga Obama membawa harapan baru rakyat di seluruh dunia, sesuai dengan imejnya yang merupakan orang kulit hitam pertama yang bakal menjadi Presiden Amerika," ujarnya sebagai reaksi pertama ekoran kemenangan Obama yang kini menghampiri White House.

Beliau berkata, semua bangsa di dunia ini sama ada mereka berkulit putih atau hitam sama di sisi Allah, dan apa yang membezakan antara mereka ialah ketaqwaan terhadapNya. "Sekarang rakyat Amerika dapat menerima seorang pemimpin kulit hitam dan diharap selepas itu serangan terhadap umat Islam juga berakhir tidak sebagaimana dilakukan Bush," ujarnya.

Hard to say I'm Sorry..

This is my another favorite from the same singer, a group that called themselves Chicago. This song is really touching. And in fact it's very down to earth type of song. Why do i say that?

Well, as a human being we all have our own pride and in that case, perception, that in some cases we will fight to protect it. It's all have something to do with perception. We might perceive something as right, let say blowing out our noses in front of others, but somebody may say that we are rude, have no manners at all. Honestly, if it's not because of what we believe, saying sorry does seem so hard to utter. Why? EGO?

Back to John Gray's book, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus... Usually it was man who have this problem. Not denying that women have the same tendency as well, in general men have more pride in them for being the leader of anything, be it family, organisation or society.

This book let me into deeper understanding on myself as a woman, and helps me to understand my husband better for being a man. The one thing that we sometimes forget, how powerful the need to control others who surrounded us. Be it our spouse, siblings, children and even friends. This need then turn into conflict, for people who don't realise who is incharge or in control of any situation. In a smaller unit of society, a father or mother will fight with the children in order to gain control within the family. On the other hand, it was so frustrated to watch some people who try to gain control of a nation or a country in a very dirty way, be it with money or thro the military's mean.

Going back to the basis of Islamic teaching, husband and wife will live in harmony if those teachings were observed. The emphasis is on the responsibilities of both party. The need for the husband to be a leader in the house, and the understanding by the wife to reckon and respect that need. A leader in Islam of course not a dictator. The leader should give recognition on everyone's functions, thinking and needs.

Enjoy the song.. Let us all listen, understand and react..

Everybody needs a little time away
I heard her say
From each other

Even lovers need a holiday
Far away from each other

Hold me now
It's hard for me to say I'm sorry
I just want you to stay

After all that we've been through
I will make it up to you
I promise to

And after all that's been said and done
You're just a part of me I can't let go

Couldn't stand to be kept away
Just for a day
From your body
Wouldn't want to be swept away
Far away
From the one that I love

Hold me now
It is hard for me to say I'm sorry
I just want you to know
Hold me now
I really want to tell you I'm sorry
I could never let you go

After all that we've been through
I will make it up to you
I promise to

After all that's been said and done
You're just a part of me I can't let go

After all that we've been through
I will make it up to you
I promise to

Have you been there?

Being in Tun Fatimah for 5 years have been a transformation. I learnt a lot of things, not just from the teachers but from friends as well. The very one thing that i picked up was an addiction for songs especially English romantic songs. Teenage life.. Another bad addiction was the Mills and Boons collections. Just imagine a few shelves in the library were dedicated for that.. But as the argument from a few teachers, it helps improve the English among the students. I guess they are right.. although one can still argue on it. Just to share another of my favourite...



Those who have watched Karate Kids will remember this.. This has always been the inspiration on any girl's mind in Tun Fatimah. One day, i will meet my Mr Right. He will be my Knight of Shining Armour.. He will fight for our love.. HAHAHA..

Glory Of Love

Tonight it's very clear
As we're both lying here
There's so many things I wanna say
I will always love you
I would never leave you alone

Sometimes I just forget
Say things I might regret
It breaks my heart to see you crying
I don't wanna lose you
I could never make it alone

CHORUS
I am a man who will fight for your honor
I'll be the hero you're dreaming of
We'll live forever knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love

You keep me standing tall
You help me through it all
I'm always strong when you're beside me
I have always needed you
I could never make it alone

CHORUS

Just like a knight in shining armor
From a long time ago
Just in time I will save the day
Take you to my castle far away

CHORUS

We'll live forever
Knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love
We did it all for love